Sunday, March 23, 2008

After the End of the Affair - New York Times

This is an article from the New York Times, which focuses on Eliott Spitzer's extra marital affair to examine what will happen to a couple after an affair has been discovered. The article explains that relationships often survive the trauma of an affair, but that the recovery process can be extremely challenging to overcome.

My experience is that extra marital affairs are usually indicative of larger issues in the relationship that have not been dealt with. However, if both partners are willing to do the hard work of recovery, the relationship can be revitalized and become much closer than even before the affair. As strange as this sounds, some of my clients actually say that the affair was the best thing that happened to their relationship because it caused them both to examine what was working and what was not and to do something about it.

This is a short and gossipy article.

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